Dumped in a horrible way

[lil123]

Hi
I have just got back off holiday that I went on with my little boy and some old friends.
I left my boyfriend to look after my house and have come back to the keys posted through the letterbox and his phoned switched off. I only heard off him twice whilst I was on holiday.
I feel sick. It is a horrible way to be dumped.
What can I do to make myself feel better?
I know I will be ok in a week or so but I won't forget this he never indicated that anything was wrong.

[curiosity]

look on the bright side thats one less christmas present to fork out for! Good luck to you enjoy your freedom.

[Petal~flower]

IAP, thats lovely..

I can sympathise with lil, I got back with someone who decided to "dump me" via email after being with him for 4 years. I stupidly got back together with him, only to be treated exactly the same way.

But by text this time!

I never learn xx

[trt]

OMG Petal, that terrible, what a sh1t.

[Petal~flower]

yeah trt, and you would think he was a youngster! but he is 46!!

[Petal~flower]

not this time IAP xx

[trt]

Keep on flowering Petal, the right one will blossom soon, : -)

[Petal~flower]

I live in hope trt :-) xx

[lil123]

Thank you to you all.
There are some lovely people on here xx

[lil123]

Can you believe the idiot text me few times today trying to get me to talk to him!
I'm not even gona waste 10p texting him to tell him to **** off x

[QueenOfAmber]

He sounds like a strange person if you ask me because he didn't tell you anything was wrong ,like you said, and he just left his keys through the postbox. Even if you did sort things out with him, why would you want to be with a man who can't even dump people properly? He sounds like a complete jerk. I'm sure in time you will recover (by eating lots of chocolate!) and learn to love again. There are plenty more men so don't get so upset over just one. :) Hope this helps!

QueenOfAmber

[lil123]

I have already recovered thanks to the lovely people on here and have had a very nice man ask me out already.
I am having a break though at the moment but may go for a drink with him in the future x

[sara3]

good on you lil, onwards and upwards x

[legendis.god]

Have a break , not a holiday , but a break from relationships , it does you the world of good.And in alll honesty being single is very underrated usually by those in relationships , which can be very overrated.

Enjoy yourself and dont look for anything , then you wont be disappointsd.

Seems like a bit of a sh�t anyways.



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