Can you ever go back?

[katieprice70]

I bumped into an old flame on Saturday and found I still had butterflies in my stomach when he spoke to me. Our relationship ended on bad terms a few years ago. We seemed to have gotten on okay the other night but that was just a chance meeting. He's asked me to meet him for a drink. Should I go? If you were in a relationship that ended quite badly and you hadn't seen them for a few years would you go? Can a past relationship be rekindled?

[jordielaz]

i think alot of people have been in this situation but i think it just serves to stir up old feelings. i dont know how you can be friendly to someone who cheated on you with a friend, who cares about parting on bad terms, sounds like he desreved it. Getting back with him even temprarily is dangerous - he's not only man in the world is he?!?

[katieprice70]

After speaking to him on the phone for 2 hours I've decided not to go for a drink with him after all. An ex is an ex for a reason. Thanks for all your input though.

[JoCan2008]

I think your making the right decision there katie as you would be letting yourself in for a whole lot of heartbreak.

It sounds to me that you havent forgave him for what he did and I bet that would come between you.

I have recently had to move back in with my parents as I was left bringing up a child with no help at all from the father (waste of space moved abroad to get out of paying child maintenance) and also getting over another failed relationship (don't ask but the pig left me for our babysitter!!!).

Second thoughts katie don't take any advice from me as I have been sh*t on from a great height!!!

[bms]

But him being an ex doesn't mean that you can't fix the reason that led him to being an ex.
If your heart still loves him, give him another try, you can't afford to loose him just like that?

To your question.
BIG YES.

[legendis.god]

Love changes everything.

So they say.

D TH ?�

[ddaisy992]

nice too see a softer side leggymessiah, you must be lucky one as its sometimes hard for people to maintain a civil relationship with an ex. Katieprice i thnk you've made your own mindup tho.

[ddaisy992]

ops legindsgod*

[legendis.god]

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