I'm not being unfair or anything but it kind of seems that way...
It seems that one of the two lesbians envolved wants to dominate the other one to show they can be the boss even if they aren't a man.
Personally I don't like the idea of gay people (homosexuals,bi-sexuals, lesbians, gays...) letting nearly EVERYONE know they are gay etc. and I'm thinking: "Why do they do this?" The human mind works in a weird way.
But, you can't judge anyone by just one thing can you? It's just my opinion. :)