What to do about the ex

[seattlechels]

So my ex and I were together for 2 years. We have a car, apt etc together. We were engaged, and were pretty much married. I have a hard time lieing and it got to her. She asked me to change and I would a little but then I would go back to my old ways. She met another girl and fell for her. But my ex still says its hard not to be with me and that she misses what we had. She also flirts with me here and there. And compars me to her new gf. What do I do? Im doing much better and miss her with all that I am. How do I get her back? Can I get her back? How can I atleast make her think of me, a little torcher if you will.

[pinktwink]

sorry to hear seattke. It seems as long as she remains with her gf there is little chance of yee getting married. Tough as it may sound perhaps you need to move on and find someone who is faithful and loves you for who you are. Like you sayyou are doing much better but it must be tough if she continues to flirt with you. Perhaps you need to make a clean break and end contact with her. Unfortunatly there is not a lot you can do to change her choices as she has made them herself take care

[Mr Veritas]

I really think you have to put this behind you,and move on (no matter how painful that may be).
She has now found someone new(as you need to do) and is just flinging this new relationship in your face (for whatever reason).
It is obviously hurting you,and I think you should take yourself out of the situation and go forwards.
Don't look backwards and live in regret,move forwards to someone new.