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Well seems theres a lot of sensible answers here.
perhaps spermtide had a point to make , though possibly didn't make it in the right way.
Rather than say anything specific to on person id just like to say that after reading these posts i think that theres a lot going on , probably very near to where you are .
Regarding me , theres no domestic abuse history connected to me , so i treat the comments with the contempt they deserve.
Im surprised the ed is still letting these people trolling me slip through , but im sure they will be dealt with in time.
As for any woman reading this , who is going through domestic abuse then id just say theres no reason to accept it and there theres no reason whatsoever to stay.
An dim sure theres someone better and more caring out there.
Remember on the surface these abusers look ordinary charming men and women too.
But you need to look below the surface , past the facade , to see what someones really like.
Dont let it happen and dont lose hope either.