jade is lucky compared to others!

[gbradfield]

dont get me wrong im not slagging jade goody off and her situation is of a very sad nature but if im honest im getting a bit bored of the whole situation. Ok shes dying, she has 2 small children she is going to leave behind, but lets not forget there are millions of other cancer sufferers that dont ever get to have there dream wedding, who dont have hundreds of thousands of pounds in the bank to support there children when there gone, who dont own there own home. etc. So when you look at it like that jade goody is concidered very lucky in that way.

[Lore]

Sqad - If I was going to lose my mum (keeping in mind my mum and I aren't the closest in terms of my siblings and I) I'd still not have it in me to think about financial security if I were losing my mum - after all, we only have the one!!

[sqad617]

Lore.....you wouldn't have to think about it, as if you had enough, then Max Clifford would think about it, for you.

Now if you didn't have any money, you wouldn't have anything to think about.

Grief lasts for variable times, but there comes a time when yopu have to move on and money is a help at that time.

[Drisgirl]

Lore -strangely I would have felt the same until what happened to us happened.Obviously none of us were prepared -its taken the best part of a year and a half and his estate still hasnt been wound up.
I can assure you that the stress for us all would have been lessened had their been even a slight financial cushion to fall back on.
My daughter was due to start her new job the day after her dad was killed -she couldnt start and I had to support her emotionally and financially and still do but at least things seem to be coming to a conclusion.
Money does help -sounds ruthless but you cant got to Tescos without it.