body worries

[helpme123]

i have a very embarrassing question. im really worried abou the way my body looks. i'm worried that my vagina is really wierd and ugly. its quite far forward so that the flaps are visible even when im standing up straight. is this normal? i keep delaying sleeping with my boyfriend cos im so worried about it. please reply. and if this is hideously weird please dont make fun of me.

[Buenchico]

If your boyfriend is worth bothering with, he'll love you for what you are and not for what you look like.

Being a fella', with fairly limited sexual experience, I'm not the best person to answer this but a quick look on the web suggests that you're perfectly normal:
http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/ask thesiteqandas/sexualhealthqandas/inaflap

You're certainly not alone:
http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic20442.html

Chris

[trish432]

I agree with Chris, don`t worry about your boyfriend, if he`s been more sexually active than you, he`ll have seen variations, as everyone is different. If he hasn`t he wouldn`t know any diference anyway.
Everyone`s vagina is different, just as your face, your boobs, your figure in general, is different. Stop worrying about it please, as you are very normal.
Good luck in your future relationship with your boyfriend.

[pinktwink]

I agree with the two posts above. However if you are still worried speak to your doctor

[SupaAbzyBall]

I fourth the comments above. Its what makes you- you! I think your being over cautious.

[zebra]

As the others say, don't worry, everyone is different, it doesn't mean there is anything wrong or ugly about you. Try and be confident and not make an issue about anything and be happy with him.

[ELVIS68]

They come in all shapes and forms ^^^^^^^^^^

[pinktwink]

oh and help me if you want to learn more about how your body works and differs then there are many books to help you feel comfortable and get to know and like your body. Its surprising how much we women dont really know about our bodies. Try buying some nice underwear to make you feel good or have an interesting bikini wax

[waterboatman]

Still at it kitesurfer?

[gelda]

lol wbm !

[sqad617]

Morning Kitesurfer.....how is Singapore today?

[McMouse]

In my experience most people have anxieties about some aspect of their sexual organs or sexual performance. What really matters is that you and your boyfriend enjoy sex with each other. Best way of achieving this is just accepting that our bits are all different and regardless of shape, size or appearance will provide lots of pleasure. Just go for it. Let us know how you get on.

[sqad617]

Cmon Mcmouse, Pintwink, Buenchico et al..............it's a bl00dy "windup"

[joet75]

flaps ? **** me are you taking the **** ? [email protected]

[Panic Button]

Our men's bits are hardly beautiful, so stop worrying unnecessarily.

[Sasha-2008]

I just to worry about the same thing wondering if I looked normal but I have never had any complaints or any guys saying anything about it. It's true we are all different. Just relax and have fun with your boyfriend. He won't say anything I can assure you. x

[tamborine]

ivy leaves are too small......try rhubarb leaves ;)

[andy-hughes]

Trust me - if your boyfriend is close enough to examine you the first time, the last thing on his mind will be analysing your shape!