did i do the right thing?

[eric1361]

my girlfriend of 5 yrs is very selfish and rude. its all give for me, i get dumped every 2 or 3 months then she comes back and i give in. my question, when we go to partys or cookouts which is people she knows, never goes to people i know, but when we get there she says " im not your babysitter or entertainment, if i see u then fine, if i dont then dont whine" but were a couple, lol. so i get tired of that and its a arguement, so now she goes out without me, saying i will never go out to places like that again with her, mind you i dont get mad in public. so she said if i show up at a outing that shes at then she will leave and dump me. wow, so after hearing all that i grew some balls and i dumped her for once, its been 5 days and no contact, i dont want her back. im tired of all the crap, did i do the right thing? i think it was a routine being with her, by the way if i want to see her i have to drive there, she wont come to my house. selfish. she doesnt answer her phone or texts when i would call, if i said i loved her there was no responce, because she said she dont have to. no other reason, i stop calling and saying things because no responces, she can be late 4 hrs and not call because she dont have to, no respect at all, was i right for leaving. her past relationships shes been beaten, raped, cheated on.

[brenda]

5 years in a relationship like the one you describe ---what took you so long to get rid???

[gonzo00]

well done my man..there's plenty of ladies out there that would give anything to have a kind and considerate gent like yourself...you shouldn't have to put up with that kind of sh*t from anyone..do yourself a favour and DON'T take her back when she comes whining...sounds like she's way to far up her own ass.

[eric1361]

it was like this from the get go, i thought no way she cant be this bad. but the good times were great, but not very many of them. i really thought she would change, but the more i gave the less she gave. that should of been my sign. i still held in there, but now im gone. i know now that i gave my all and there was nothing i could do more. now im relieved and know im a good person who deserves more.

[Lynsy]

u dun rite

[zzxxee]

you sound like a lovely person , and are totally wasteing your time and energy on this person.. You need to find someone who will love you for you and will give as well as take it will be hard but get out dont be a shadow of your former self x