help for toddler with an anger problem

[dinkydoo]

is there any help you can get for a 3 year olds behavour,
he is such a lovely little boy but can just change in a split second to very angry and temper tantrums, if help available where is it?

[B00]

Believe it or not, it's perfectly normal behaviour!

My own darling (?) is 4, and still temper tantrums. Even last night threw a massive wobbler and screamed at me "well im slamming my door then"....and she did! I was torn between peeing myself laughing, going balistic or just ignoring it. I chose the latter, well actually I chose to come downstairs, tell the hubby and we both peed ourselves laughing!

What I'm trying to say is that they all behave this way, they're testing the boundaries, and he will settle down eventually. Just tell him his behaviour is not acceptable then ignore till his temper improves.

(at least that's what im telling myself anyway!)

[kira000]

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/toddler/penelopele ach/copingtantrums/

[dinkydoo]

Thank you all for your advice, very helpful, tantrum thread very very good, thanks again Dinkydoo