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Thanks firstly to Poltergeist. All I can say is I feel very sorry for your wife. You've openly admitted to cheating behind her back with prostitutes and ladyboys and seem to think it's ok. You've also stated how disappointed you are that she's carrying a male child.
I recall when your mother died in Sri Lanka, I offered my condolences and sympathy because I undestood what you were going through, but to accuse me of making up that my dear mother, died on Mothers Day really shows you up for what you are, which is a seriously damaged individual, who will end up poisoning your child's mind.
Thank you for your constructive advice Beanie, your suggestion does sound sensible, but I've never been able to "play the game" as my female friends would say. Everything is black and white to me. I understand he was frightened about becoming a father, I'm also worried about becoming a mother and never planned to have children, so it will be more of an upheaval for me than him. Perhaps there needs to be more support out there for expectant fathers.
Thanks also Schutz, I appreciate on a Saturday night, this site is full of drunks, who vent their frustration on other people. The world is full of unfortunate characters, I just prefer to ignore their inane drivel.
Pink, I would never give my child up for adoption, I would have been alot more careful not to fall pregnant, if I felt my relationship was going nowhere. Everything that has happened has come as a great shock to me, his family and friends, who would never have thought he would behave like this. It is completely out of character and perhaps it is purely down to him feeling neglected and left out.
I have to consider what to do now and if there's a future. He is trying to make amends, but I would have prefered him to have been honest weeks ago, when I first questioned him. This has just all come at the wrong time, when I'm 33 weeks pregnant and having