ive fallen in love

[kitten_uk2]

im married, but im in love with someone else. no one knows but me, and now you. i get butterflies when i see the man in question, my heart beats faster and he brightens my day. i think about him most of the time, from waking up and going to sleep, he is even in my dreams. i dont even know if he knows i like him and wether it would bother him anyway. i know there is not alot i can do about this, as im married and i believe marriage is for life, some days i get so sad that i cant tell this man i love him. i cant act on it, but id just like him to know, that he should never feel unloved, because i think about him every day and hes special to me. its driving me loopy. im absolutely smitten, but im married, ;-(

[sqad617]

zac....no.....cruch was correct....nearly.....crutch.

[sqad617]

Zac.....have googled "slip"

"To move smoothly, easily, and quietly: slipped into bed."

Don't get it......................LOL

[BeatySwalls]

if you fall in love with someone because he says you have nice hair this is crazy lol

[pastafreak]

This sounds so like a high school crush. How can you be in love with someone that you barely speak to? All you have done so far is 'chit chat'......that is not the basis for a relationship-not by any stretch of the imagination. As it is...the only thing you can tell us about this man,is that his life is gambling. That by itself would set my alarm bells off.
No hun..you need to make what you DO have work. You have a marriage that you SHOULD be committed to....put your energy into that...not something that has no basis.

[kitten_uk2]

like i said i love my hubby. but this other man has been on my mind since nov o7 so is it just a crush?. i know there is nothing i can do about it, i would never betray my hubby. but its just trying to get past these feelings that bother me.

[Redrum]

Hi Kitten, I know what you are saying....I have been in that situation and felt like 'he' was everything i could want at THAT time, i was so wrong...but i can tell you this part of your life, the feelings you have for this person they will fade...it sounds like it is just taking more time for these feelings to dissipate....deep down you know you love your husband so try and seek comfort in that at least...you have done well in not being tempted to have an affair like so many weak people do these days....i think you may be unhappy about something missing in your life, be it socially ? An interest ? I promise you you wont always feel this way about this person....the grass is not always greener...take care x x