Joy - where are you ?

[DEN53]

Morning Joy - sorry I did'nt come back onto your post last night - I went to bed early feeling a bit grotty.

As I said in my earlier post - one minute you were playing a word game - when I came back from my dinner, you were threatening to leave - WHAT HAPPENED !

We have established that some abers on here are so far up their own ass they would need a compass and map to get out ! so just ignore them Joy and play with the nice ones.

If your little grandson, Ben came home from school and said he was being bullied Joy - what would you do ? My advice would be, surround yourself with good little playmates Ben and ignore the bullies, because no-one likes being ignored. Obviously if if was physical bullying, I would be down that school and punch their lights out (but thats just me!!!!!!!), Ha Ha Ha

On CB Joy, you are surrounded by lovely little 'playmates' - in fact I would say you are amongst one of the popular people on here - (could'nt quite understand sqad's comment about 'becoming too popular too soon' - thats a bit of a puzzle.

Anyway Joy - hope to speak to you soon - it is a shame we can't communicate 'for real' - but that would be too risky on here, giving details etc.

Love Denise xx


p.s. I once stood my ground with a woman where I used to live - everybody in the street was terrified of her - the argument was over children (as it normally is) I got pulled into it because her older daughter had been picking on my son, who was 9 at the time. To cut a long story short - after that incident, we talked and got quite friendly (though I am quite easy going) which I know helps. She said she respected me for standing up to her.

I think that shove I gave her worked !!

[Bbbananas]

Without being too specific - the Hamptons area.
(Posh!!!!)

[sqad617]

salla...an affinitY?........AN AFFINITY?........we are madly in love ffs (never used ffs beforeLOL)

Thanks for sending my regards to Barmaid.

[Bbbananas]

I thought I should downplay things duck - in case D of G should be logged in....

[sqad617]

salla LOL.....LOL...?

[Bobbisox]

pmsl....I agree DEN, about the freezing out thing, I have pointedly given funnygirl an opening to defend herself against calling us northerners coarse,,,,ziltch, I am once again in the invisible mode,,,but I can cope with that,,,he-he

[Bobbisox]

going out with the lasses tonight, it's a Tuesday thing, I meet up with the girls I used to work with and put the world to rights, will def. see all of you tomorrow on here, while News is good sometimes, it's not me, so back I ma,,,,'cos I can,,he-he

[bigmamma]

No sqad , never been to Spalding , and erm.....btw , I wasn't even born yet in 1947 !

[bigmamma]

Bonnie , I have an Aunt who's from Newcastle , and her accent is delightful ;-)

[No,Knowledge]

i haven't read many answers because i am still laughing at this load of bol0x. lmfao.

sqad617
Tue 19/05/09
12:49 Den, in answer to yopu comment about my comment......it is a human failing and particularly a British failing to knock anyone, in any aspect of life who becomes succsessful, has money or does well.

Not so the Americans who aplaud success.

Now Joy came and at first was wondering why she was not getting accepted and I posted her saying that you have to be part of the inner circle (mainly female I may add) and I have been knocked down on this item many a time.

Joy was quickly accepted as a most popular contributor and she tried hard (too hard initially) to be accepted.
he has been a HUGE success, in a matter of days and this success has been unacceptable for some.

To build people up and knock them down again is a British sport not excluded from ABers.

Does this Den go some way to explain my comments?