I'm sure you're fed up with being lectured, but if you're going to use the Internet, you should learn to use it to better effect than simply posting a question on AB. However, as a layman, here are my views on your questions. The functionalist view of the family tends to be associated with ethnographic studies of other cultures, which have relationships and ways of bringing up children which differ greatly from the nuclear family of the Judeo-Christian culture; this view therefore focuses on the functions involved, rather than on a set family form. As for the feminist view, it is difficult to discern a single feminist view these days. The "womens libbers" of the 1960s saw the family as both "enslaving" the mother and imposing a restrictive stereotype on daughters, thus preventing women in general from fulfilling their full potential in society. More recently, some women, in reaction, call themselves "feminists", but extol the virtues of the traditional role of women as carers and home-maker; others take a more "middle-of-the-road" view and recognise the important place of women both in the family and in society as a whole.