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Have you or anyone you know tried to find long-lost loves years after losing contact &, if so, what has been the outcome? Plenty of detail please!
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They and you have moved on, so dont match your imaginations. Most I know have done same thru Friends reunited (via schools).
Sis divorced after 18y & wed school love.....5 kids disrupted & 2partners broken. The teen kids resentful at change & entering freefall of drugs & drink. Think hard before you force kids to accept new parental role.
Sis divorced after 18y & wed school love.....5 kids disrupted & 2partners broken. The teen kids resentful at change & entering freefall of drugs & drink. Think hard before you force kids to accept new parental role.
Definitely agree. If you let each other go the first time - whether it was by simply losing touch, or having a fall-out - there's no point in a second stab at it. I DO know a person who married the their partner twice, but over all, searching for lost loves just seems to be when your life's in the doldrums and you hanker after what might've been.
It can work chirpy, but not in the way you would want.
You are happily married, but sex is cr@p
Your long lost love is happily married but his/her sex is cra@p
Keep your "happy marriages" but just meet up for sex.
Sorted.........until you both get fed up with sex with each other, then be satisfied with yopur sexless marriages.
You are happily married, but sex is cr@p
Your long lost love is happily married but his/her sex is cra@p
Keep your "happy marriages" but just meet up for sex.
Sorted.........until you both get fed up with sex with each other, then be satisfied with yopur sexless marriages.
I actually do appreciate where you are both coming from. And I understand that is the case. It's just my first reaction to affairs is just the horrible feeling that they exist. And I would hate to be the one cheated on (and I'm pretty sure I have been), it's a horrible feeling. That's all I meant. It's a shame to be in a relationship where one or both partners are unfaithful. (And yes I must confess I have not been an angel myself but I've never had a full blown affair).
And I am really great at contradicting myself LOL
And I am really great at contradicting myself LOL
Regarding virtually all the answers above: thank you as they're well-intentioned, I'm sure. But I only want my original question answered. I myself am not seeking an affair, and there are no current partners or children involved to get hurt. I just want to hear of other people's experiences, that's all.
Maybe you're a little shell shocked, jaded or downright disillusioned at the moment Angel ?!!
Long-lost loves eh? Very tempting indeed to seek them out and see if there's any chance of rekindling it. I have heard of instances where it has worked, but on the whole I would regard them with great caution.
If it didn't work out once, there was a reason. Although, having said that, people change, grow up...
Mmmmm,,,,, now where is that Nigel almost-rude-name I last saw in 1981 ? We had a chemistry there, to say the least. (I suspect though he was a closet gay, or is on drugs. Definitely one of the two. Best left methinks....)
Long-lost loves eh? Very tempting indeed to seek them out and see if there's any chance of rekindling it. I have heard of instances where it has worked, but on the whole I would regard them with great caution.
If it didn't work out once, there was a reason. Although, having said that, people change, grow up...
Mmmmm,,,,, now where is that Nigel almost-rude-name I last saw in 1981 ? We had a chemistry there, to say the least. (I suspect though he was a closet gay, or is on drugs. Definitely one of the two. Best left methinks....)
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