do fat girls get less respect?

[pleuni]

new worrying by me, I have put on weight in the last year...gone from size 12 to 16 (been a bit sad and didn't want to do any exercise) now I find that blokes don't treat me the same as when I was slimmer seems I get less respect? ......am I less respectful??

[bigmamma]

The Wangler , I hardly think it's fair to say that a slimmer woman is a toothpick with no body , that hurts as much as a fuller figure being called fat !

[pleuni]

mamma....I'm sorry to hear that you have lost your mum and sister....i hope you are though the hardest times? ...well my comfort eating hasn't stopped

[TheWangler]

The Wangler , I hardly think it's fair to say that a slimmer woman is a toothpick with no body , that hurts as much as a fuller figure being called fat ! No im not talking about slim women,im talking about the women that go out of their way to not eat nothing till they look like one of the undead,and then they try and rub up on me at the club? Im like but tell your fuller figured friend that i want to dance with her instead!! loL!

[bigmamma]

Yes , I lost my sister first and my mum passed away within 5 weeks of being ill 10 months later , and then my brother suddenly dropped dead a year later . This was 2 years ago now though , although seems nearer talking about it .
Your loss is very fresh though and you should give yourself more time for grieving hun , and with time , you'll feel more like taking life back by the horns xx

[ummmm]

pleuni ..... Don't worry about such trivial things and let yourself grieve....Things go back to normal gradually. Maybe when your pain isn't so raw xxx