Should I?

[ShouldiAsk]

I have an old boyfriend who is an awesome guy. We never really got over eachother. I've been wanting to say something for awhile, I keep thinking about it, but I just want to say I'm sorry for the way things turned out and let him know that he is a awesome person. Because I don't think I really showed appreciation to how good he was to me. Should I say something to him? Or just let it be?

[waterboatman]

It's your choice Shouldiask. but you obviously want to, so do it. At least you will know one way or the other.

[BeatySwalls]

tell him he could di tomorrow in a car accident etc

if tomorrow ne ver comes will she know how much I love her?

blah blah blah

[happyone2]

Do it, you wont feel right until you do !!!

Good luck !!

[sara3]

yes, tell him.. but don't have any expectations for a response.

[sqad617]

"old boyfriend?"....how old?

"awesome" ???????????/ eh?

"We never really got over eachother. " is that your version of events or his?

If he was that good, why did you part?

You are history....drop it.

[karma22]

Yes if thats what you want to do. Do it!

[karma22]

beaty - that song is sad isn't it ? blub blub

[beso]

Over thirty years ago I said the wrong thing to someone I really admired. I still wish I could apologise but it would definitely seem weird now. The longer you leave it the more unlikely it will become.

Do you know when his birthday is? Send him a card. Say how glad you were to know him. You are allowed to say nice things on someone's birthday without seeming weird. Keep it brief and definitely don't "spill your guts" as we say in .au.

You don't really need to say you are sorry for how things turned out. Focus on the good bits. He would rather that too I'm sure.

[jennyjen02]

gosh sqad, do all us medical students turn out to be as cynical as you!? haha.

[reception]

why is e your ex? if he's so awesome.