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I only saw your last remarks after I'd posted my previous to you.
Now, believe it or not, but I'm not trying to be argumentative with you. However, I've had wide experience of people being arrested and the circumstances, etc. Hence the queries I've made in my first post.
If you're saying that this is all you know, my advice would be to have another chat with your b/f, for he obviously has not told you the full story.
Because, like me, you were not actually there. Correct?