Why iis it...

[karma22]

that when I'm feeling my lowest and trying really hard to be positive everyone else is having a fabby dabby dosey time and telling me all about it?

My brother has gf, got back off holiday from 2 weeks in Thailand with her, job that he loves, social life, car

Now my ex just phoned me up in lunch break asking how I was 'I said fantastic great - trying to be positive even though I feel sh1t and stressed and then he proceeds to tell me how he's off to France maybe for a few months maybe to do some work renovating a house for his brother in law. Arghh

I just want something to prove to everyone my life is as fab as I'm trying make it out to be

[karma22]

You're being far too nice to someone who is aka angel21 - did you realise? You know the moany one :-/

I'm 22 end of August.

Thanks for your kind words Salla :-) Onwards and upwards xx

[rinkins]

Will do salla ;-) By the way do you know if bigmamma is ok?

Sorry karma - minor hijack! I think you should stop giving yourself a hard time. Salla is right. It's sooo easy to look at other people and assume their life is all pink and fluffy and perfect when it really isn't. Be more positive as you have been but don't feel you have to put a front on. Th exercising will defo help. I've been getting off my bum and been out stomping every day (except one day off a week), doing body combat and even started playing tennis. Excellent for mental health as well as physical!

[Bbbananas]

why should I not be kind angel? Was you rude to me in the past? (Oh yeah - probably!) I don't bear grudges xx

22 - Oh sweets, you have your whole lifetime ahead of you. If only I were 22 again & knew what I knew now....! But would I have ultimately have been any happier? Who knows...?

You are right - onwards and upwards. We all have a moan from time to time, but stay positive & optimistic & you'll be fine. I envy you your youth karma; don't waste it. Go to Thailand yourself - could you tag along with your brother next time he goes away? And you sound as though you have an ex who cares enough to ask you how you are (OMG: if you are the person I think, DON'T be tempted to get back with him). You go to France with a friend; it's only a hop & a skip away. Or bite the bullet & go on a solo holiday - you may just meet someone fantastic. xx

[Bbbananas]

Rins: on facebook there's a page where all bigmamma's friends have been asked to leave her a get well message. Me being techno-thicko me left it on the wrong page, but hey-ho, it's the thought that counts. I think she's getting on okay now.

Hey Karma - live up to your new name, and go & find some! Good Thoughts, Good Words, Good Actions.

And here Endeth my Lesson for Today :-)
(Back to smut>>>>>>>>>>>)

[Bbbananas]

Zac my man: Holidays I am pleased to say. The last time I was abducted by a Yellowbelly, I couldn't walk straight for a month. A very nauseating experience...

No, I was whisked away by a Welshman. Not quite so nauseating.

[karma22]

I don't think I have ever actually said anything horrible to you :-)

I have been thinking of a working holiday but need money to do that and since leaving soon won't have enough funds I don't think but maybe next year!

I know I've got my whole life ahead of me and I feel I want to prove my life is good to everyone because I am young, free and single and don't want to waste it - I want to do things even if I am not 100% sure I want to do them like go on a working holiday just so that when I settle down and have kids (hopefully one day) I won't see my youth as wasted. :-)

[karma22]

Thanks hunnies xxx loves ya! xx

[rinkins]

Ok sals, I will have to have a look for it, thanks

[Sqad]

salla...bl00dy hell, you are right on form today.......I wish I understood one tenth of what you were talking about...LOL

Plaid Cwmri.........you don't HAVE to love someone....he sounds fine to me....."spits with envy"

[Bbbananas]

As they say - and it's only now I'm old(er) I can see what they mean - Youth is Wasted on the Young !!!

Sorry - with the being horrible to me bit - I might have got you mixed up with KJC.

[Bbbananas]

Sqad - I am indeed in verbal diarrhoea mode.
Good innit?!!

And I wasn't complaining about the not being in love with him bit - believe you me, that sort of lurrrrve is the last thing I want at this present moment in time - I am just wanting to have some mighty fine fun.

[CAJ1]

Be thankful that you don�t already have
everything you desire.
If you did, what would there be
to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don�t know something,
for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times.
During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations,
Because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge,
Because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes,
They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you�re tired and weary,
Because it means you�ve made an effort.

It�s easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those
who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.

Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,
and they will become your blessings

[karma22]

Thanks CAJ1 - thats loveley and so fitting. I definitely do appreciate the bad times as I know I will grow and learn but I just hate it at the time lol xx :-)