I'm in my 40's and have only been seeing a guy for a week, we did some heavy petting the other day and am seriously thinking about going further. Is this too soon. I am VERY in-experienced as in never ever having any sexual encounters before. What do you all think. You will probably say "When I feel ready" but how do you know when you are ready.
It goes all moist and the surrounding internal muscles "quiver" and your breath starts to come in short pants, like your partner, and your breast feel engorged.........something like that.
Then you say to him...."Do you love me" and he replies "cause I do I am going to ..................well you will find out the rest.
We got close yesterday evening, but not quite all the way. I'm on the chubby side, we couldn't find a comfortable pos. We ended up just laying together in each others arms enjoying each others bodies.
To be honest, when I said "chubby", I really meant fat - I'm 5 foot tall and weigh 16 stone. And when I said "comfortable" I meant his member couldn't reach because of my fat stomach. It can't be the way I look as he "gets hard" every time he see's me.
In your 40's? Just go for it girl. Have a couple of glasses of Pinot, then go for his Pinot.... then make up for all that lost time if you feel it was worth it.
Thanks guys, salla - I'm not No-know I'm definately angie. vibra - interesting thought, I may suggest that. But he won't get any benifit from it though.
cheeky - we tried me on top but I couldn't balance, my upper legs are too short to reach down his sides. Oh yes we both have bad knees so the doggie way is out.