virginity regrets

[mimigreen]

do any of you regret losing your virginity because you didn't love/like/know the person you lost it to?

[mully]

I totally regret it ,I feel as I rushed into the whole thing to get it over and done with, it was so crap there was no love or emotion there and I felt really used.

 I can honestly say I wish I had waited for the right guy, its only now that I see how precious your virginity is and I always regret just doing it because everybody else had, but theres no going back, whats done is done now!

[Octavius]

mimgreen - if he was that experienced, he would have made sure you were ready and that it didn't hurt - regardless of size believe me.  You did the right thing.

[georgit79]

I'd like to change my answer. It depends if you're talking about the time I'm not sure whether or not I did it, or the time I definitely did it. The second time was brilliant.

[bernardo]

My original answer was:

I DON'T KNOW YET

but it has been mysteriously un-bolded by a gremlin (obviously not by the AB Editor, as that would have been a waste of time) so I am re-posting my original answer for the purposes of maintaining historical accuracy

[RainbowBoy]

sounds to me like you already lost it then... or did you just measure your respective genitals?

[mimigreen]

Thanks for your advice and opinions everyone.i've gone off sex a bit and am going to wait until i'm ready and with the right man until i lose my virginity. i dont care if it takes another 10 years!

[LilRitt04]

I regret everything about it. Especially the guy I lost it too. I lost it to someone I havent seen in over a year and I barely talk to him. I regret in everyway. I am not with the man I am going to marry in 2006 and I wish I could of saved myself for him.

[mimigreen]

sorry to hear that LilRitt04. congratulations in advance for 2006!

[KEJ2000]

I regret that he was not in love with me!  HAHAHA  Which brings me to an important point, if you know you don't love your partner, what you're doing might be very traumatic to the partner, regardless of whether it is for you or not.  I wish the guy had had the decency to turn me down, knowing he didn't love me, regardless of what I wanted at that moment.  I can't really blame him though, he is a guy, after all, so I don't know who I "should" be upset with, it was just all an emotional mess, that still hasn't been completely resolved in my mind to this day.  My advice: wait until there is mutual love.

[RebeccaSJ]

I do regret it in a wya because I was raised to save myself for marriage and I didn't make it.

But I was in love and it was quite romantic and he ws excellent.