Following my thread earlier and all the fretting - she now doesn't really want to go and is having a fun day with her best friend tomorrow. Crisis averted for now.
LOL I remember an occasion like that pericat, my daughter wound herself up for an occasion and it was a real family conference and when we eventually decided NO was the answer the relief on her face wa obvious. So just as its tough being a parent , its tough being a teenager too, bless em!!