accusation of harrassment

[bubbles4920]

my hubby has been accused of physical harrassment at work, ie the girl fears for her safety in the workplace. they had an affair, i know, so bad, it was over, she said she was moving on. we got married, she i suppose didnt like it, even sent us a so called sincere card wishing us all well for future. they only ever met outside workplace. he has much higher position. do you think both will get a warning? does the higher status person always get the sack to be made an example of? what she is saying is false about the touching bums in the office. think its just sour grapes now as particularly hubby said that now we are married he tells me everything and im aware of everthing. cos of her safety i guess she could be moved across unless she has another job so shes speaking out before she leaves. this is in the usa by the way. i know you could say he deserves all he gets but i really would like straight, informative answers so i know where they both stand. a friends hubby works for an international very famous company over here and hes said that if hed done it, he would be out, no question as hes high up. surely there are two sides to everything and both were consenting and i know that the complainant has to be seen to be given justice if she is on the other side of things. i would hope that he, they just get a warning and she is moved to one side. i think shes taking a very big risk doing this so i wouldnt be surprised if she already has seen a solicitor and knows that she should play it this way.

[bednobs]

it seems very unlikely thy would both get a warning
if the company believed her, why would she be warned/
If the company believe him, why wouod he be warned?