why did he talk about names?!?! please help :(

[beckybrown08]

im Seventeen and am 26 weeks pregnant, My ex is 20 and we had been together near enough 2 years, However he didn't react to well and he didn't talk to me for a while.
So i decided that his parents needed to know,so i went over to talk to them,and luckily they where really understanding, and really supportive, Of course he was not happy about this and carried on ignoring me.
A few weeks later i got a random text from him asking me if i was 'ok?',and asking if he could come see me?. So i decided to let him, he came to my house and we talked about things, After he had been at mine a while he asked if he could feel my belly and i let him.
After that things went wrong,he didn't talk to me for months on end. Then in August i saw i had a random missed call from him, obviously i was surprised as i had not heard from him in months, We got texting and talking and he seemed fine he kept asking me if i have anyone new? 'or who was i sleeping with' ,we talked for a while and when i told him how far i was he seemed shocked. When we got talking about the baby he decided to text and say 'miles for a boy,grace for a girl ' I was SO happy i thought this was his coming around to the situation!.
He seemed fine for weeks with everything,then one day he stopped talking to me.I was so confused he had completely messed with my head! So i rung his parents just to say me and him had been talking etc..And he had lied :|, he had told them that he had, had no contact with me what so ever.. he had also told them that i had been slagging the family of, WHICH I HAD CERTAINLY HAD NOT!, He lied so much :# and i don't really know why?!, Because he was coming around. His dad told him to change his number, i think this is because they think that i lied about his contacting me, i even said i have them in my inbox and i will bring them to show you! The other day i tried texting him, and he has changed his number. What is going on with him!? :(. I Dont understand it

[ummmm]

Have you checked your answers to the same question in 'pregnancy'?

[chelle7272]

becky we have already answered this when you posted earlier, sorry i haven't time to look for it now.
You need to stop worrying over him as he is not helping you. Concentrate on yourself and the baby until ha can beehave more maturely.
You will only upset yourself and your baby if you keep stressing over his behaviour. please see the answers posted earlier?
Take care xx

[tamborine]

Think of him like a dog - luv 'em and leave 'em! He doesn't want you nor does he want another man with you in case you really are carrying his babe - he will want proof when it's born.

You picked a dog to sire your babe.....dont make that mistake again. You can manage your babe without him - give him the kick he needs.

[Velvetee]

It seems to me Becky, you may have to face motherhood alone. You are both very young and the father of your baby is obviously too immature to accept the responsibility, that if he has unprotected sex with a woman, there is a liklihood she will become pregnant.

This is probably a common factor with young men and it seems he just wants to carry on as though nothing has happened and continue to live his carefree life. As others have said, you probably need to concentrate on yourself and your baby and stop chasing after this loser. It seems clear to me, he doesn't want to be and isn't ready to be a father, but maybe occassional pangs of guilt have made him contact you.

Hopefully you have a supportive family who will help you through your pregnancy.