the author of this question is a real gem and great thinker...theres no need for a question he/she had a thought and expressed, it, people have asked me "how are you?" ive said "not bad or fine" sometimes ive been so bad i could kill myself that very same day...
so are you happy...NO!
Look for the joys of life.....they're very simple. You're alive, fit and able - all senses working (even luckier) no pain - another tick. Somewhere to live, food to eat, not enslaved - more ticks.
Tomorrow is an adventure for you to explore - IF you wake. Be damn glad if you do - 'cause a lot wont!
I apologise for leaving last night however I had trouble posting. What prompted my initial comment? People watching. We had our firework party and I was struck by the way a couple of my close friends were "acting". Both are having affairs, not with each other, and I was
sad for them, the way that they "played happy families" whilst they are not actually "happy" in their respective relationships.
Do you know what is actually going on in their personal lives to judge whether or not the 'happy family' is a sham?? People have affairs for lots of different resons-and may still care deeply fo the one they are married to / partnered with. it isnot always black and white. Don't get me wrong here-I do not aprove...just saying that unless we are in their shoes.we really don't know.
I am not judging them pastafreak, cazzz1975 and mizzybat, I do know the situation that both of them are in as they are close friends of mine. They have told me why they are staying with their respective partners and I whilst I may not agree with their reasons I respect them.
My musings last night were because I knew that they were "playing happy families" and putting on an "act" in front of friends and family.
It started me thinking however I could not post more due to problems.
Glad to clear things up. I would hate for you to judge me on a misunderstanding.
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