Who do you think is right?

[ummmm]

We ordered an Indian tonight.

Ginger gets a phone call from his Mum and a couple of minutes later the Indian turns up. My son answered the door and comes in to ask Ginger for the money.

He turns round and says 'can't you see I'm on the phone'

I say...'Maybe, but there's a man at the door waiting to be paid'

He then says to his Mum 'hold on I'm being nagged here' and throws his wallet at us. Not in a nice way either.

So, what is ruder...ordering food from someone and making them wait on the doorstep in the cold? Or saying to your Mum..can you hold on a sec I just need to get some money out of my wallet?

[karma22]

Don't worry ummm - he must have been a bit stressed - you know men they can't multi task (well neither can I actually but I can talk and get money at same time so I can a bit) but anyway he was being a grumpy git and I think you should tell him

[ummmm]

I will do....I'll wait until tomorrow.

[ummmm]

We will see. He's done the dishes....something he rarely ever does.

I'm amazed he's still awake....

[yogi-bear]

Guilt has set in, ummmmm.................he'll be like putty in your hand later................but i would tell him that if he ever throws his wallet or anything else at you or your son in anger, you will not be so understanding!.

love to you, sweetheart

yogi xx

[yogi-bear]

Anniebody and I have similar thought patterns......... and she's lovely :0) x.......................lol

[yogi-bear]

Yeah, you always seem to catch me "playing alone" over there...................have'nt been there yet, for a while.......may nip over xx

[yogi-bear]

...............but it's better when i play with you, you little minx..................grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr and a howl











not forgetting...................................
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a woof!! xxx

[yogi-bear]

Hey ummmm

How did it go last night in the end...........did he apologise?

xx

[ummmm]

No....!!!

He phoned me earlier to make sure I'd got his nephew off to school. I forgot to mention last night....he said I was an embarrassment in front of his nephew and my sons. I asked him why he was talking to me like nothing had happened. He went on the defensive and told me I was rude so I hung up.

I don't mean to drag kids into it but I'm going to suggest to him that he asks their opinion....I haven't spoken to them about it and I won't....I'll let him ask them. They are old enough. We'll see what they say.....He won't get defensive with them and they won't lie to back me up.

[yogi-bear]

I'm sorry, ummmm and hope you can get it sorted out, without too much disturbing the kids too.

I would have bet he would have said sorry to you, sweetheart......as you and your son dont and did'nt deserve that last night, at all.

Good Luck for later on, and love to you, ummmm

yogi xx

[ummmm]

It'll be fine. He's a good guy really but stubborn as Fluff...lol

Thinking about it and the last few weeks. Monday last week he told me that they have no work left and if the boss doesn't get a contract by Friday they are all gone. Luckily he did but I suppose that is playing on his mind....2/3's have already been laid off. He hasn't mentioned it since but....

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[DEN53]

Hi ummmm - well known fact - men can't multi task - sad but true .

[ummmm]

I know...but something that simple..!!

Saying that the kitchen fitter is here.....he can't think and talk at the same time...bless him.

[DEN53]

Only multi tasking men can do is drink, smoke and fart - all at the same time.

[yogi-bear]

Just seen your message, ummmm x

Is it ok to e-mail you, lovely?

[ummmm]

Of course it is...