Doesn't get wet

[bms]

My gril friend doesn't get wet when we are doing foreplay.
I tried licking her (breasts, and everywhere you can think), but it dos not help. Does this mean that she doesn't get on? And I'm not really enjoying doing sex with her, cause its painful. (She is 21 and I'm 26)
She has 2 and half year old baby. Help

[tiggerblue10]

You could try lube.

[CheekyChops]

That's exactly what KY Jelly was invented for...

[triffiks]

get good book on love making. licking is not the only form of foreplay.TALK i said TALK to her about it. She will be pleased if you do. Ask her what makes her wet. Come out with it and stop hiding your feelings. also try and make her laugh when shagging . Its menat to be fun. Give her a fit of the giggles during sex. Thatl help make her wet. Ignore all the porn and erotic on the movies. half of that is put on. (I work in theatre) Push all the right buttons and shell be begging for more.Promise you. Good luck

[Thunderchild]

lube but if shes not turned on it may noot be ur fault, the only girl I've been intimate with I've only managed to get to orgams twice (and we've spent many occasions together) and I think alot of it is her state of mind

[blondie83]

hyperthetically speaking, on the other hand tho, is it a turn off if a woman gets too wet?....

[tufty7]

Perhaps she may be frightened of getting pregnant and does not let go enough to enjoy it ??
I reckon if you were doing foreplay correctly you alone would have enough natural juices for both of you to make love making comfortable.... foreplay is not like trying to rub a stain off a carpet ......

There is no substitute for experiance....... :-)

[Pootle]

'Trying to rub a stain off a carpet'

That really made me chuckle!

[Velvetee]

Often, when women have a baby they lose their sex drive and this can last for years. Maybe she is tired, doesn't feel good about herself, has no sex drive or perhaps you just don't do it for her.

You probably need to be more understanding and patient and obviously discuss with her if there are any problems. Communication is the key.

Durex make a great lube range called Durex Play, the blue one is great.

[RebeccaSJ]

Try Vaseline.