get over it, I could care less, can't abide people pretending to be newbies and taking every chance to have an anonymous pop at folk on here, it creeps me out.
Have noticed Dot as beig a bit of a stirer and abusive, I asked a genuine question and expeted to have some genuine answers, why bother to call for hlelp?
I think Dots post was pretty self-explanatory.
Your 'friend' is a Transvestite; NOT a Transexual............you need to have the difference between the two clear in your own mind.
Unless he IS a Transexual, in which case write again for additional advice.......................