This will be a bit garbled but have to say it , when I first came on here I was impressed by the camaraderie and asked lots of things. I then settled in Q&P as am an avid puzzler. Discovered B&S when my hubby was dying and indeed the day he died, I made lots of friends. Have been through the mill and am now trying to be more light hearted, what disturbs me though are these horrid theads that keep recurring and some even from way back. Have you no hearts? Move on if something was said. I will seriously think again about posting here if this continues (I know I am no importance to you that want to carry on) and that wou;d make me sad. I really like the most of you, forgive me this ramble.