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I have been masturbating ever since i could remember and i my boyfriend doesn't know, but i recently found out that he thinks self pleasure is gross. I feel like i should tell him what i do. Should i?
snowflake, tell him that you love a DIY, and that you'd like to do it to him too ...
Guys are much more inhibited about this. They don't like to admit that they do it. The rest of us chat about it, and go out buying buzzy toys together.
Send him a text saying "I'm having a DIY and thinking about you"
Or drag him into an adult shop, and get him to choose a toy with you.
if you want to tell him, you shouldn't havto be afraid of it, and if he is a ***k about it, he not worth your time, even though he prob does it himself..,. even if he doesn't and doesn't like it, it should be a case of ok fair enough.. anyway, happy 'batin
It's your business and your bits.... you don't have to tell him anything.
It might be a tad insensitive to start doing it in the living room in front of him, especially if it's a programme he's particularly looked forward to watching. But hey - just go into another room.
Carry on but eat plenty of Carrots....haven't seen a blind rabbit yet !
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I have been masturbating ever since i could remember and i my boyfriend doesn't know, but i recently found out that he thinks self pleasure is gross. I feel like i should tell him what i do. Should i?