I have been in touch with DEN, I'm not breaking any confidences by her, she has said herself on here that her Mum has Alzheimer's and she is in her 80s, DEN goes between looking after Dad and Mum and running her own household, her Mum tends to need her around a lot and added to that is the constant battle with the different bodies of people, she is a lovely person and I am honoured to have her friendship....she has sent me a few jokes, so her SOH is still very high, I will pass on everyone's regards to her, I'm sure she will come back when the time is right.
Bobbi ♥