Not a nice family matter, his he saying all of the money has gone or he just wants to hang on too whats left ? I think a charge on a property means that if the property is sold you usually have to be paid first, but if there are other charges on such, before you then they will be paid first, you really need to see if you can get some free initial advice from a professional, because it seems he is saying you will never see your money again. try the finance topic in answerbank.