how can i find out?

[windycity8]

me and my hubby have been having our ups and downs and ive naturally confided in my best friend.
a woman i used to work with last night rang to ask me if i had left my husband. someone at my ex workplace had gone up to her and asked her if this was the case, saying that someone but we dont know who, had met my 'best friend' and she had said i had left hubby. without getting the person in trouble who rang me, how do i find out if best friend has been talking about me to someone? i know she wouldnt say that i have left hubby, she may have said some things that had happened and may have said, i should have left him. it could have been bumping into her in the street or maybe out clubbing, the story sounds like chinese whispers. i dont want to sound desperate by contacting woman at work to ask who she was told by. i hate confrontation and dont really want to ask best friend plus she will want to know who has told me this and i promised not to reveal it.any ideas?

[cherrychapstick]

maybe thats your answer your husbands infidelity ,he may have told his lover you have left him!!

sorry but if you aren't going to listen to the advice these nice people are giving you then why bother asking ?

ask your friend if she may have said to anyone it wont end your friendship if she is a true friend she will tell you and if it breaks your friendship then she isn't a friend after all

good luck x

[windycity8]

i do listen to people's advice on here and am looking for the best way round my issue. yes, wish me luck, im going to need it. will break my heart if i lose her as a friend.