Ex Husband - New baby

[PurpleParis]

Not really sure how I feel about this...I think my ex husband (we were together 15 years), we've been apart for almost six years, and his new wife are expecting a baby.
He and I didn't have children together, I already had two from my first marriage and due to a medical condition was advised against anymore.
This was fine at the time he said he would rather have me around than a baby.
Just not really sure how I should feel....can't say I am overjoyed for him....should I be? Real mix of emotions......

[grasscarp]

I think it would be unlikely for you to feel overjoyed. There are no rules about your feelings or how you should feel about this. I think jealousy would be quite a natural thing since you didnt have a child with him yourself.

[brenda]

i would try not to think anything about this impending baby.The fact that you did not have a child with your ex husband may actually be a blessing in disguise, children can so often resemble an ex in so many ways that it is like a constant reminder which may awaken sad thoughts.
Try hard to move on if you can and don't look back . Good luck.

[ummmm]

I think your feelings are perfectly normal.

[PurpleParis]

Thanks for your kind words everyone....I am trying to look past it....i'll be fine....thanks again