there are a couple who for reasons best known to themselves have , let's say, been a bit cool to me through the whole thing, now I am viewing that as their problem and not mine, but I am here to stay !
I have a glass in front of me....and managed to get his cousin to come and pick us up...his a right poof in the shower....Jesus....it took me 1/2 hour. He's been up there much longer...bloody men..!!