can my sons ex stop him from seeing his child because she doesnt like the new girlfriend

[starbar69]

[ummmm]

As above...

Can't your son see the child on his own. Women are known for being picky when it comes to their kids.

[zzxxee]

i agree with ummm maybe if he sees him on his own and his ex sees hes taking her wishes into account in time she will come round and let his new partner have contact with his son

[society]

No

[lizzydrippin]

Of course she can't. If that was the case then half the kids in Britain would be kept from their fathers!

[Riss]

Lizzy Dripping-I remember that show,didn't a Blue Peter presenter play her?

[Kassee]

She can request that the new girlfriend isnt there when he sees his son; she would have to say that this was upsetting the child, or that it was too early in the relationship, that he nneded time with his dad alone, not the new girlfriend etc. I think that is a reasonable request for a while, and would be supported by a solicitor. But of course in time, you couldnt argue if the girlfriend was there too.

[Schlomo78]

I asked my ex to give it six months and only introduce our son if he thought they were serious and it was going to last. It was a bit awkward for him for a while, but he did do it, as he knows as well as I do that the last thing a kid needs after their parents have split is new people in and out of their lives, and having bonds broken that they have made. When he tried to say I was being unreasonable I just pointed out that our son didn't meet my partner for over 8 months, and as he lives with me all week and some weekends it made it lot harder for me to do. He shut up and got on with it then.

[Nay35]

My Ex did see my son on a Sunday at his Mum's house and I did request for the new girlfriend not to be there but she always was, and I couldn't stand the new girlfriend because my ex was cheating on me with her when I was carrying his baby, maybe even before that, plus she was my ex's bestfriend's ex-wife, I felt helpless because I couldnt do anything about it cos it was my ex's Mum's house. Problem got resolved though, well from my point of view. My Son's Dad phoned my Mum (cos my ex wasn't talking to me) and said he didn't want to see his him again and that he was not his Son. Which was fine by me but my ex's new girlfriend harrassed me for 4 years after I divorced him. She is a complete Psycho. They deserve each other!!!!

[poppyred2010]

My ex has just introduced a female "friend" he said they are not in a relationship, after only being seperated for a month to my son, I am livid and have asked him to see our son on his own, he thinks I am being unreasonable, so until this can be resolved I have stopped him having him, as I can not trust him. And she is a divorcee with a child and has only known the ex for 1 month!! you would think she would understand, well think again it was her idea they all meet up at the park, thus manipulating my ex, which is easy done to get what she wants aswell as putting pressure on my lad who is only 7 as he was scared to tell me!!!