My guy friend is ignoring me!!! help please!!

[selinamc]

I had a mini fling with my guy friend last year but he in now in a relationship with a girl and she found this out recently. I no longer see my friend in this and have moved on, however i got a phone call from him after a party one night which he was at but he never spoke to me at the part. Instead, he rang me at 2am saying, "whats this about you still liking me and trying it on with me?" i sed to him thats rubbish, u should know me better and i havnt even seen him in 3 months so why would he think that.
Then his girlfriend grabbed the phone off him and sed to me "i know your a lil ***"
I dont understand why my friend would accuse me of this and considering he didnt speak to me all night at the party, i thought it was really rude to ring me up. hes suppose to be one of my good friends but she didnt know we were close and by the looks of things, she told him not to talk to me.
I get the feeling he knows hes in the wrong and wont apologise. I know i should just forget him but its really bothering me because hes in my scoial circle so i always see him out.

[woofgang]

this is where good old fashioned manners come in handy - smile politely and move away, if he speaks, answer politely and excuse yourself..if he's really your friend he will try to talk ti you if he isn't then that's that, what you won't have done is made yourself the subject of other people's gossip and amusement.

[Redrum]

Simple - his gf wont like you hanging around, or any contact her bf has with you and you with him, you both had a fling, so forget this and move on im afraid you must try and forget him now..let him get on with his relationship now....put yourself in his gf shoes, how would you react to you ?

[happyone2]

I think he might have had to say what he said cos she was there...............

She wanted to hear what he said,

i am puzzled by what prompted the need for the call, but possibly something was said to prompt him to have to tell her what happened with you.

Either he stills likes you and let this slip or you were a bit more doh eyed than you think you were ???

Either way, hold the line, you are happy that you have done nothing wrong, so hold your head high and ignore it ..............not you problem

[Eve]

Your body language may have given away more than you realise, not necesarily even showing you want him, as you say you've moved on, but maybe from the fact you were intimate, especially maybe to a jealous current girlfriend.

I'm with happyone in that it sounds like the phonecall was for her benefit though very unfair of him to drag you into it that way.

I'm also with happyone in keeping your head held high and rising above it, let them sort out their own issues.