I'm drunk and melancholy

[bobjugs12]

Meh

[stonekicker]

thanks mamyalynne. there have been times when i just haven't known what to do. they all just keep saying there's nothing obviously wrong, but the pain must be a sign of some underlying problem. i worry about that too and think that's why i'm up at this hour outside his room in the upstairs office listening to him snoring...x

[Mamyalynne]

Is he eating and going to the loo okay? I may have to check your reply tomorrow as am off to bed

[mike11111]

Hate to suggest this, but have had the same symptoms myself (although much older than your son). Could he be possibly be severely constipated, in which case a good laxative should sort things out?

[stonekicker]

no and yes in that order. its just wierd...but then he never gets anything vaguely normal! x

[NoMercy]

I don't understand Tonyted's problems. Chatterbank is for people to chat, laugh, moan, commiserate... whatever. Did anyone tell Jan1957 to sod off and take her problems elsewhere when her lovely husband was diagnosed with cancer and subsequently dismissed from his job? Or tell Dris to stop moaning when her childrens' father died in a bad accident? If Bob feels like coming on here and chatting about his problems, he can. Life isn't a bed of flipping roses, so why should we come on CB and pretend it is. Methinks Tony is a little envious of Bob's youth and appeal with the ladies....

[thetruthhurts]

I awoke today with vague memories of posting absolute nonsense on here. After a brief search, it seems all I've done is threaten suicide, no harm done then lol. The Guinness was flowing a bit to freely last night.

[bobjugs12]

No hanover this mornign what a surprise. I feel really good this morning, very upbeat, no more "meh" today lol

Sorry for biting peoples heads off last night. I just fancied a moan, and had no-one physical to whinge to. Instead I brought it on here. Lol

Cheers all, and how is everybody today?

[tamborine]

so glad you're more positive today.....get down to Southsea, breathe in sea-air & give the kids a treat at the fare.

[bobjugs12]

Kids are already back at their mums, I went for a gentle run along Gosport sea front earlier as well (Stokes Bay, Browndown, Lee On Solent and back, it was.....er......fresh)

[tamborine]

you ran past my old house, knocked down for a huge supermarket. Did you use the ferry - the kids would love that.

n.b. Y dont you apply for a council house, am sure you're entitled to one ?

[NoMercy]

Hey Bob ! I'm just drying glasses, the stew is in the oven and I'll be popping the cork on a Rioja very shortly....

[bobjugs12]

Supermarket along the seafront in Gosport???? I don't remember that lol

I'm already on the council list, but there is a masive shortage of social housing in this area, and I have no priority. Although my ex has agreed to joint custody we have done everything like grown-ups, so there is no court order saying joint residency so I cannot claim that the kids will be living with me, neither am I disabled, unemployed, homeless, or in dire straits so I am at the bottom of a very pig pile. Plus an aspect of pride would much prefer it if I could rent my own and leave the council houses to those who really need them lol

[bobjugs12]

NoM, can I join you. It'll beat McDonalds any day lol

[tamborine]

s'market down the high street, on right....10ishy ago it was Sainsbury.

If your parents gave you eviction notice you could get more priority for housing.

[NoMercy]

Aww... course you can. X

[bobjugs12]

Down by St Georges barracks opposite the old Ritz cinema? Thats a Morrisons now, lol.

I want go down the eviction notice route, because if my folks did that, then i'd be conning some other poor sods out of a house they might really need.

[tamborine]

yep...was the Admiralty House; a georgian manor - haunted.

Think about your own needs for housing....you need somewhere for you & kids.

[bobjugs12]

I am, and as annoying poo as the current situation is, it's sustainable in the short term, and it's secure and safe for the kids. There are families out there in bedsits, who need these properties more than I do, so they should get them. I can carry on like this until I find a flat or house thats suitable

[CuteToni]

Just read your thread bob and for what its worth I wish you all the best xoxo