should i or shouldnt i?

[neathgirl]

ok just a quick question really, my ex has recently been made redundant from her job - things have kinda been up and down since we split up though in our last chat we decided to leave things there and we were more than happy with that decision.  i have a few websites where she can check out some jobs should i email her these or not? i dont want to give her the impression that im still hanging on there (which isnt the case) but shes going through a hard time and just wanted to do a little something to help her out.  what do u think?  many thanks in advance x

[nfn]

neathgirl I would email your ex these sites with a little note attached like "Wondered if these might help". Keep it neutral and hopefully she'll understand your just trying to be helpful. Good luck.

[neathgirl]

thanks for that nfn!
was thinking of doing something like that im not wanting to make her feel uncomfy or anything just hoping to help her out when shes in need of it most. :-)

[flashpig]

In agreement, if you don't seem like you are trying to rub it in that would mak you seem lik a sound bloke. It woul sort you out for bing a friend, or, if you don't want this it will just make you a sound bloke. If sh doesn't want thi, it will make you a sound bloke, but with her being a sulky buggr.

You cannot lose, because if you aren't trying to rub it in you will only come off as hlpful and nice, and thats not bad for anyone.

[neathgirl]

ermmm thanks for that flashpig still trying to understand and decipher it mind lol and just for the record when i got out the shower this morning i wasn't a bloke lol