What does he want? Me? Not me?

[sarah-london]

[squarebear]

Maybe he wants you to post a question?

[mccfluff]

50/50 i'm going to guess

ME

[4getmenot]

both

[redcrx]

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have you tried this? never fails :)

[sarah-london]

Ok.....so I'll now actually explain the situation - doh!

6 weeks ago I split with a guy I was seeing, he basically ended thingas he said they were moving too fast. Anyway, have seen him out a couple of times & he always makses the effort to come over & say hi....I never do. Saw him out again last Sat & he didn't leave my side all night, then professed to me that he really really likes me & has missed me & he's sorry for being such a d*ck. Admittedly, he was drunk people....we both were! He was adament that he'd call/text the next day & I was a bit dubious about this from previous BUT low & behold he did & we had a lovely chat where he more or less said same things as night before.....then nothing! Ok so we've shared a few text but nothing major......I've never even slept with this guy if that makes any difference. Some alternative perpectives on this would be greatly appreciated......particularly guys though girls opinions greatly rec'd too! ;o)

[sarah-london]

Sorry Square Bear.....it's all there now!

[squarebear]

lol sorry.

Why not try going out with him a few times and see how you two get along? Be wary if he seems to come on too fast though. He maybe just wants to rummage in your smalls.

[redcrx]

do you want to try again with him? maybe he wants to but is unsure how you feel about it

[society]

Whom are you 'dohing'? Are we suppose to read your mind?

[AlBags]

He's obviously got a few girls on the go.
Good luck if you want to share with others.

[LoftyLottie]

I am sure sarah was doh-ing herself.

[sarah-london]

Yeah I was dohing myself cos I didn't actually bother to write the stupid question!!

I would like to see him again but he knows I like him and I thought we were making sone head way when he admitted that he missed me. If he had wanted to have slept with me he couldve but always maintained seeing me wasn't about that. Had he of said that stuff drunk and then no word I wouldn't think anything of it, i'd just think he was drunk but he rang sober and repeated himself! What do I do people?? I really like him but don't wanna scare the poor boy off :0(

[mccfluff]

then just take it easy and don't go getting serious

[sarah-london]

So here lies my dilemma.......do I now wait for him to contact me?? Help! I would like to start seeing this guy again but don't want him to feel pressured. How frustrating!

[mccfluff]

wel how did you leave it?

[sarah-london]

Well he called the next day just as he said he would and told me he missed me and we shared our normal banter which was really nice. Since then I've sent a couple if friendly texts, nothing too major as u dong wanna scare him and he's being really distant! This is well confusing me!!!! I need a next move? Or is my next move to do nothing? Help people....driving me insane.

[AlBags]

You don't listen do you .. lol
When I was in the RAF and quite a bit younger, I used to multi-date.
You are either in a situation like this, or he probably thinks you are too intense.