im pregant with my 4th child

[jodie1988]

i found out a few days ago in pregant with my 4 child my youngest child is only 4 months old my fiance dosnt think it is a good idea to have the baby but i dont think i could bring my self to get rid off it i dont know what to do

[joeluke]

Ever heard of contraception?

[Mamyalynne]

This is a decision only you can make, with or without the guidance from your Fiance, once you have reached the conclusion, then accept you are doing whats best for you all as family.
Love M

[jackthehat]

A very difficult situation for you to be in.
Think long and hard (but quickly) and make the right decision for you, your fiance, your children and your relationship; I don't think anyone here could advise you more than that.

There are professionals who you could discuss this with who could perhaps make things clearer for you; ask at your GP's surgery for details.

I wish you all the best.

[jodie1988]

thank you we did use some thing i was on the pill and my partner used a condom

[cazzz1975]

I never buy that excuse personally, both contraceptions are almost 100% effective and yet you fall pregnant..

I only never buy it because I know women who have said they used the pill but were deliberatly missing it to get pregnant

[bobjugs12]

At least labour will be easy this time round, just sneeze and baby will fall out

[xxsparkerxx]

I think its a bit harsh when someone comes on here for advice, but you get silly comments, yes there are people that come on here abusing the site, but there are also genuine people asking for help!!!

Only you and your partner can decide what is best for you and your family, just have to be sure you are making the right decision either way.
All the best
x

[4getmenot]

Bobjugs means no harm. I'd rather have a bit of humour than someone being nasty for the fun of it

[numnum]

my friend has 2 children and both times she was on the pill, she suffers from upset stomaches a lot and this can canels out the pill

[Helen352]

It really upsets me to read this. My husband and I have been trying for a baby for years unsuccessfully and you are blessed to have all these children. I fully appreciate that your situation is very different from ours, but I feel that you should live with the consequences of your actions. Every child is a blessing. There are other options available to having a termination. We are now too old to adopt, but there are 100's of younger couples out there who would give their right arms to adopt a baby. Please consider all the angles, not just what suits you.