New Judge - as someone who lives with a Premier League season ticket holder (the team are Premier League, as indeed, on reflection is the present Mrs Hughes) I do understand some of the psychology of supporting a team.
To be a supporter, you need to indulge in a triumph of hope over experience - otherwise Arsenal / Chelsea would be the only team with regular support.
You must always believe that your team will win, no matter how stacked against it the odds may be. that is why you go along weekly / fortnightly and share in their joys and sorrows, always believeing passionately in the team's belief to fulfil your dreams.
To adopt anything less as an approach is to be a follower, not a fan.
If you extrapolate that League approach to the national game, and the four-yearly World Cup, you have an army of people willing their team on, regardless of history, odds, other teams, or even how England perform on a daily basis. Belief in them winning is what makes their supporters, and yes, realistically, they know the chances are slim to none, but that is what support is all about - deserved, or in this case - not.
But they will be there again in 2014, and onwards, because it's bred into the national psyche, and people love it, and there is no harm at all in that.
For me, they are a bunch of over-paid prima donnas, and the reason why we will never win is because eighty per cent of our Premier League is made up of players who play for other countries in the World Cup.
Would I point this out to the present Mrs Hughes? Why would I? She knows it already - and why spoil her enjoyable dream with cold hard reality? I'll keep quiet thanks - maybe you should do the same with fans you know.