When a friend who had sadly lost the love of her life... reminded me of something I'd said to her when she wasn't sure whether to have a relationship with him some years before...I'd said You never know if it is the right decision until you can look back on it many years later,,,,,
She said she didn't really get it back then... but she did and it was, and even knowing about the pain that was ahead she'd have done it again...
Too often we let 'what if's get in the way of happiness....and then we are left with 'if only,,,'