I have'nt said Paypal is'nt safe and secure. I've only had 300 + dealings with eBay.
But on 4 occasions Paypal have helped themselves, by just taking the cash straight from my account. It has on each occasion been returned , but only after much unwanted stress.
Ever since I've had this happened, I've always sent parcels by recorded delivery.
I've propably been missing out, as ever since I have had parcels 'go missing' I have just sold in the UK only.
Sorry factor for jumping in but I did't realise that International signed for held any water... so it seems if your parcel goes missing in Bangkok... in theory... The Post Office will be your first port of call... interesting.