There seems to be a lot of that on here lately...it's not healthy for anyone...wish I could help...or would that make me one of sqad's nauseatingly nice posters...
She seems to have a real issue with the fact I don't work. She doesn't take into consideration that I started work at 13 (younger if you count the pub) and it's only been two years since I stopped. That was a joint decision between me and OH for me to stop work. I had so many emotional things happen in such a short space of time that he thought it best I stayed home or risk emotional meltdown.
Hey ummm -dont ever justify yourself to poodi -youve been through in the last 2years that some wouldnt experience in a lifetime.
Said person on a thread re her mums house -posted for sympathy within 4 posts had started digging at me and lol'ing to her alter ego-so much for being sad .I wasnt even on the thread !!
Last night another thread saying I had to be on my best behaviour -again to sidekick again I wasnt on the thread.
Surely thats not AB etiquette.
The penny will drop one day.
To keep on thread -I have had a couple of 'hosptal experiences' in the past couple of years and the nurses couldnt give a flyer.I was left for 5hrs on a trolley until H came back in and kicked up.
My daughter went to A and E one night as the cat had scratched her eyeball.She was seen in Triage then left for 3hrs with NO other patients to be seen whilst the nurses had a catch up at their station.
Overworked -nah ! Angels - nah !
For poodi -I worked in a care home in the Dementia Unit-I was untrained but I still didnt even gag at cleaning dried in faeces of an old ladies back.It could be me in as many years-she was once a young lady and as such deserved to be treated with the utmost dignity.Surprising what you could learn about people on here if you werent so abrasive provocative and defensive eh?