I am a huge huge hoarder, I haev a housefull from when I lived on my own. OH isn't so has been very tolerant. We took the step of hiring a self-storage unit earlier this year so loads of stuff is up there at the moment, while we try to see the wood for the trees here. A lot of the stuff I really don't want any longer is going on eBay, it is paying some of the bills - and ever so slowly my mind is getting clearer. You have to want to do it, and it is so daunting - it sometimes takes a third party to get involved as an incentive.