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Ive been dating my man for nearly a year but not without much problems. When we first met I noticed on of his girl pals was over the top with him, licking him at parties, touching him, tickling him, taking him away for 'private chats and cuddles' at partys. I at first tolerated it but when she became too much for me to handle I sat my boyfirend down and told him I didnt mind the friendship but the flirting had to stop. (none of his other girl pals act this way) He replied "I want to flirt with her, everyone else does". from then on I've had major insecurity issues with her and I cant seem to let it go.
One time me and the girl had an argument over this to which she said "I dont care about what you think I just want to take him away for private chats and cuddles" my boyfriend was with me when she was saying this and when she went away to get her drink I asked him to tell her to back off. He replyed "Oh I'll tell her not to cuddle me because you have an insecurity". The problems have esculated from here...
I dumped him and days later he was out partying with her and her facebook profile picture was made of her and him cuddling!! We got back together and he cut her out his life completely (because of me). However all his friends hang out with her, shes there everywhere they go. Shes centre of the groups attention and it wont change. I make it very difficult to see his friend which is wrong of me but I hate her.
I want him to see his friends without there being any problems but I cant let this go. I really dislike this girl. Having friends is normal and I dont want to be like this. Its just she is always around. He needs his friends and i'm making it so difficult. I know i'm being very unfair. I do not know what I should do.
Should I dump him and move on with my life?
One time me and the girl had an argument over this to which she said "I dont care about what you think I just want to take him away for private chats and cuddles" my boyfriend was with me when she was saying this and when she went away to get her drink I asked him to tell her to back off. He replyed "Oh I'll tell her not to cuddle me because you have an insecurity". The problems have esculated from here...
I dumped him and days later he was out partying with her and her facebook profile picture was made of her and him cuddling!! We got back together and he cut her out his life completely (because of me). However all his friends hang out with her, shes there everywhere they go. Shes centre of the groups attention and it wont change. I make it very difficult to see his friend which is wrong of me but I hate her.
I want him to see his friends without there being any problems but I cant let this go. I really dislike this girl. Having friends is normal and I dont want to be like this. Its just she is always around. He needs his friends and i'm making it so difficult. I know i'm being very unfair. I do not know what I should do.
Should I dump him and move on with my life?
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listen very clearly, you need to leave him alone,,, when you guys were together at first he didnt care of what you felt, now you guys back together and he cut her out of his life, its sounds to me they was more then just friends, and that he just relized that you are better then that trick!!! You deserve better then that, she will always be around in one way or the other because of the friend circle, it will only cose dramma and have you upsad and worried either way, if he stays at home or if he goes out with these friends,,,
good luck hun
good luck hun
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