My grandmother enjoys playing indoor croquet, they have them, the mallets and balls are soft, it helps with coordination, and keeps them social, many elderly people tend to keep to themselves. this is a fun way to get them busy.
Dear Jeanette As a carer for my mother, I can empathise with you in the role reversal mode. People, when they reach a certain age, have a very good long term memory, alas their short term memory is lacking. So if I were you I would embrace the suggestions that have been posted.
Best wishes Steve xx
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are all good elderly activities, check out http://www.elderlyactivities.co.uk/ for details on all these activities and to print off the activitie sheets to keep in your files. Media URL: http://www.elderlyactivities.co.uk/ Description:
I know it's probably a bit late for Jeanette since the post was back in 2007. But for someone else in a similar position there is a daily or weekly paper specifically for this purpose that can be used in care homes (but I believe anyone can use it). I read about it in Caring Times.
It's written for the general elderly & early/mid stage dementia. Go here to see what you think: http://www.dailysparkle.co.uk Media URL: http://www.dailysparkle.co.uk Description: