Why do many women want to change and control men?

[KreepyKoo]

Is it because us men are doing bad things? Or is it maybe because the women have a super strong nurturing mothering instinct and this controls their actions if so then why when we have said "NO" several times we then have to stand through several weeks of constant nagging, is this a form of psychological warfare used to break us down and so they get their way? ? And before im lynched by the feminists, yes i know some men do this also but through a different channel ie..intimidation, bullying etc...
(No offence to the great poster earlier that i had a great mini debate with which spurned the birth of this question)

[craft1948]

I've frequently changed men.....trouble was the new ones were no better :-(

[4getmenot]

almost there? Now surely you are trying to change me. I moan a bit thats what I'm like, if I didnt I would forever being picking clothes off the floor. I like a clean house

[ummmm]

I have a moan about the fact he leaves cans about the house. Doesn't stop him though...