Our fair and unbiased AB

[Sqad]

Confused of Menorca.

When a male admits to adultery on AB, he is "tongue lashed(figuratively) and insulted.

When a female admits to adultery on AB, it is "passed over"...........".ignored"

[ummmm]

Mrs A...everyone has a breaking point.

[tamborine]

ooooops you explained same time.....Nom = wont drown :)

[Bbbananas]

Who was wrong bob? Both of them.
Who was the more wrong? That's hard to say. A lot of folk will say the man, but it's not as black & white as that is it?

As you probably know, I have been the victim of domestic violence. I suspect you may have had a physically hard time from your ex. Bottom line is, it's a pity any of us, of any sex, have to lash out. .

[mazie]

Bob, no offence taken at all....It happened but we both laughed about it later... this bit >>>>> and Mr A, although a spiteful and nasty bloke. More damage can be done to another human being by this than a lot of the everyday violence that goes on Bob. I have friends that have never been hit or hurt physically but have been bullied verbally to the point of a breakdown and beyond....Anyway's Back to work for me..
xxx

[bobjugs12]

No tambo, NoM has never slapped me lol.
My ex-wife used to be quite violent though. I've been punched in the face with enough force to break my glasses, had stuff thrown at me, kicked in the balls, threatened with a knife, and slapped hundreds of times. The only time i raised my hands in response was ti hold her arms back to stop the attacks. The time with the knife, i pinned her arms with force, which left faint bruising. She went into work the next day proudly showing off the bruises and telling everyone that I'd beaten her

[bobjugs12]

Butch, i'm slightly confusled lol

[jackthehat]

Dear Confused of Menorca,
Anyone admitting to having/being an affair is usually castigated by AB members.
Anyone considering having/being an affair is usually castigated by AB members.

There is, however, usually one solitary male voice crying out for a fair hearing of 'the wronged chap in this' when a woman is the poster..............he often has trouble finding his keyboard when the boot is on the other foot, though.

We can all admit to a host of indiscretions carried out when we were but callow youths; maturity and the willingness to see things from 'the other persons' point of view are the key to treating our partners with respect.
A very few positively delight in maintaining such behaviour, above and beyond the censure of their peers; to the result that umbrage is taken when a post made in a 'puckish' moment is taken for the truth it claims to be.

Yours, etc

[bobjugs12]

Aaaah, the hoosiers. Got ya lol

[Sqad]

jth

I wish I understood what you were talking about, that´s not a reflection on your literary skills but upon my inadequate intellect.

[mazie]

Hi Sqad. I hope it's made you feel better (this thread) Because now everyone thinks I'm a drunken, violent, husband beater ;o)

x

[ummmm]

Mazie...look, we all know they need putting in their place every now and then ;-)

[Sqad]

mazie....LOL....well before this thread I have been known as a troublesome, miserable insensitive philanderer.

[mazie]

and after it...you are ?

quiet right ummmm ;o)

[joeluke]

Last time I checked Adultery wasn't a crime so what's the problem?

[sara3]

a woman posted on here about her affair with a married man within the last 2 weeks, and about 95% of those who replied (including me) were very negative.