Am I alone?

[simsfreq]

Am I the only woman in the world who does not find the sight of a man's genitals a turn on? Or am I a lesbian? I find women attractive... I also find men attractive until they take off their boxers.

[yummy]

It depends which man it is..

I have to be attracted to the personality aswell as the physical aspect to be 'turned on'. However.. thinking about it now.. it's SOMETIMES possible to be impressed by just the genitals..

[jno]

I think whether you're a lesbian depends on more than just your reaction to the sight of genitals, it's your reaction to the whole person. Are you saying they're just not a turn-on or, as your last sentence suggests, that they're actually a turn-off? If so... well, you might have some minor psychological issues to address; many women aren't turned on, but not so many are actively repelled.

[hannahjo]

I am not a lesbo, and am in a very happy and healthy heterosexual relationship. But I�m with you, men�s privates just aren�t attractive! I do find women�s bodies very attractive though but in the same way you�d appreciate a fine piece of art!

[happy_face]

simsfreq I totally agree. No offence to men but their genitals really are ugly. I think it's the fact of it all hanging on the outside compared to women where it's a bit more neat. And although I know what the testies are for they've got to be the ugliest thing ever. A hairy sack with 2 plums in it. I find men in tight boxers really sexy but only half as sexy without the boxers.

Saying that though I've come to love my partners tackle as it's part of him and I love him more than anything.

[pixi]

hi simsfreq, I dont find mens genitals a turn off, I just think they are hilariously funny looking, for similar reasons to happy-face lol

[Cockney_si]

I think both can be a bit off putting in some ways, try turning the light off or something.

I had a dream once where they had designed this really fast plane and when they unveiled it it looked just like a blokes you know what....hillariously funny.....

[nicola_red]

I don't think men's genitals are aesthetically attractive, but it's what they represent that makes them appealing! 

[jno]

this is all going to be a hammer-blow to Sigmund 'penis envy' Freud.

[sinbag]

I,m a man and mens fings don't turn me on .

[magicdice]

From an objective point of view, genitals are pretty ugly, in a comical sort of way.

[yellowduck]

Hey I think I know what you mean. I'm only seventeen and fairly inexperienced with men which may explain the fact that I don't find their genitals attractive. I admire women and I think some are attractive and whilst I find female genitals possibly more attractive I think this is simply because I'm obviously more familiar with them! I'm certainly not a lesbian as I fancy men totally. So, I think my slight 'aversion' to male genetals is simply down to inexperience and unfamiliarity. I don't know whether this helps you in your situation but as long as you're comfortable with what you do I think you should just go with the flow x x x

[simsfreq]

Thanks everyone.... I really appreciate knowing I'm not the only one! I seriously thought I was some kind of freak... well anyway, thanks, still not 100% sure what I am but I know I shouldn't worry, I'm only 17 too, so I have plenty of time to figure it out :) I hope I'm not a lesbian anyway, I don't have anything against lesbians but I do plan on having children some day so that could possibly ruin my plans! Anyway thanks again for your helpful words :)